Friday, July 2, 2021

Worried Wife Gets Nervous

Dear Dr. Jim 

I have a problem.  It seems that when we are going some place I get nervous.

First of all I ask myself over and over, "Self, have you done everything you need to do before I leave?"  Sometimes that thought process it lasts so long that it makes me late for where I am going. Then I get really angry at myself for making me late.

Second though, is my constant worry that the rest of us or even others going with us won't be ready to go when I get ready.  I worry about this too, a lot.  

Sometimes my worry gets to my husband and the others and then they too become angry, at me. 

Please, Dr. Jim, I need your help with my problem.

Worried and Angered Sealy 
In Neverland, Iowa

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Dear Sealy, W&A 

I feel for your situation.  My daughters have this problem also, it is quite common.  

Researchers have discovered also that it is much more common in ladies than with men.  So then they researched along that vein. 

The research lead to a chromosome that is generally not common to women but very prevalent among men. 

Since I am not a medical doctor I won't attempt to diagnose your or others whether or not you or they fit along these lines or that this idea is even true. 

Most I have told this mentioned to their GP's and after a fairly thorough medical exam were referred to a 'neuro' doctor and were helped. 

I hope this helps you and your family situation

Let me know the Doc's verdict,

Dr. Jim 

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